Post by Creepy~Visage on Nov 9, 2002 11:44:26 GMT -5
This is an article I found just for the girls!!
1. Express sincere interest in something he does that he takes pride in.
This could be a sport he plays, volunteer work he does, a hobby, his job, etc. If you would like to know more, ask questions. Be sincere, don't pretend to be interested in something that totally bores you, just to please him.
2. Laugh at his jokes.
Be careful not to overdo it, you'll be sure to annoy him if you turn into a giggling kid whenever he speaks. Just don't be shy about laughing, if you naturally see the humour in his jokes or sarcasm he'll enjoy being around you.
3. Admire him.
If you put your mind to it you can find something admirable about everyone. So, discover something about him that you really like and compliment him on that. It could be his skills as a sportsman or with computers, his intelligence, how romantic he is, his super friendly personality.
4. Appreciate the things he does for you
If he takes you out for dinner, tell him how good the food is, how nice the restaurant is, how much you are enjoying yourself, anything positive about the time you spend together is good.
Even if the night doesn't go as planned, and all seems ruined...look on the bright side, tell him you enjoyed spending time with him (only if you did). You will come across as super positive and everyone wants to be around positive people.
5. Tell him you admire his confidence
All guys love to be told this. Any by doing this initially, you'll boost his confidence so you'll be doing him a favour. What a great human being you really are.
6. Tell him he looks good.
Find something about his appearance that you really like and point it out to him. His nice lips, sexy legs, or friendly smile.
7. Compliment his kissing skills/technique
It seems to be general knowledge that men love when a woman gives them sexual
compliments. Some women are shy about this, but they shouldn't be, a great deal of a man's sexual satisfaction comes from knowing that he is satisfying his partner.
8. If he works out, compliment his great posture.
Or even better - if he has great posture ask him if he works out. Compliment his muscle control, his endurance, etc. Be careful, it's easy to go too far with this, don't just say things to flatter him, and don't go on and on about how big his muscles are. A simple comment that you're impressed by how well he does his exercises is fine.
9. Ask him for help.
If he is at the gym doing the leg press and you don't know how to use it, go ask him to show you. If your car hasn't been working, ask if he would look at it. The point here is that he gets to be the expert, by helping you he feels smart and competent, and complimented.
10. Compliment his relationship skills.
This is great because if you say something like: "I really like when you hug me for no reason" he will feel happy because you are pleased by him, and so he will do more of what he knows pleases you. You both benefit from this. Compliment his listening skills, how understanding he is, how generous he is, take notice of all the sweet romantic things he does for you, etc.
